Dating an ambitious guy
(Last week, on a similar note, I talked about whether or not people to partner up with. As I told my friends when they asked me to account for myself: "I guess I just didn't think he was ambitious enough.As I said in my trophy-dude post, I think part of the reason I'm so interested in landing an über-powerful man has to do with my subpar self-esteem: I'm not sure I'm so great, and my hope is that dating a very impressive guy might help the world think — and help think — that, actually, maybe I'm somewhat special after all. And I worried that if we got serious, maybe I would get kind of lazy and lose hold of my own discipline and ambitions."Hmm. Also, for the reasons I've indicated above, I've started to wonder if it's not nearly IMPOSSIBLE to find a young, ambitious guy who is also INCREDIBLY NICE SELF-CONFIDENT. Like, I think I'm neurotic enough that it would be hard for me to have a relationship with someone who wasn't exceptionally nice — and yet I also think (judging from experience) that it's rare to find ambitious guys who are also very sweet. Maybe it's just that ambitious dudes get impatient and unforgiving with because I'm particularly sensitive.The pressure to appease their loneliness would frequently force me out of my zone and into a dress and heels for an evening of distracted dining, rushed conversations, and unsettled energy.The whole time I’m on the date, I’d be taking notes and answering work emails.When the focus is high and the thoughts are flowing, intimacy is the last thing on your partner’s mind.Learn when your partner is in his or her flow and give them space to create. Ambitious people do not want to constantly have to explain to their mates why they work so many hours, why they can’t come to bed early, why they haven’t texted back, etc. We want, and deserve someone who understands our lifestyle. When you are driving yourself towards an end goal, there’s less time to be focused on what your partner is doing every second of the day. If you are dating a highly motivated individual, know that your partner will never stop finding new ways to express themselves or generate income. Often, we may have a difficult time translating that same passion into relationships.More often than not, the termination of a relationship is the result of two people who, at their core, are incompatible, and unable to respect the aspects of each other’s personality that they could not understand.
If at any point you feel you are on the back burner, express this to your partner and offer some suggestions for how to resolve this. When your partner is occupied with their work, the worst thing you can do is to be intrusive.
Which is not to say they don't make some time to get laid ...
We tend to focus on the classic reasons why relationships can go sour (i.e., lying, cheating, abuse, etc), never realizing that a lack of compatibility can force a wedge between any couple.
Besides, strong and driven men appreciate strong independent and driven women.
By this, I don’t mean like like/ fancy a strong independent women.
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I see ambitious men attracted to ambitious women who like to grow and make something of themselves too.