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I feel bad reading this im 23 my guy is 32 he had 3 children when i met him now he has 4 the last one being our beautiful daughter, as much as i love her i just feel like im trapped now like everything is a lie, I've met one of his children but the older two 12 and 11 boy and girl....
Working overtime alot - he has a lot of child support to pay. But ladies, when you have that gut that something isn't right, normally you're right. "Oh I was with my brother the whole time, we walked out together." when asked who the woman was (incase it's just an old friend he ran into - hence, still making excuses) he flipped out, got extremely defensive. Tried to make me feel guilty for being there and he left me. My point is for all of you that are in this boat, please take a step back and look at your relationship with this man without the blinders on. If your divorced man with kids doesn't want you in his entire life, then you're better than that. His child support payments are so high he could never afford to live on his own.
No children visits - he's just not ready for that step, not sure how to intermingle his new g/f with his kids. You deserve someone who wants you included in everything he does. Don't let him use you up until you have nothing left to give. So basically I"m stuck with him and this unfinished house until it can become ready for sale and then we can go our separate ways (hopefully) I cannot afford to take a bath on this house!! If you see a guy with kids RUN as fast as you can in the opposite direction. i see u spent alot of your time wanting to meet his kids,which is something that i wouldnt have done.cause he have to take things slow when it comes to that.u cant rush that.i know cause i have to kids which r girls and im also going through a for me thats a scary alot of crazy ppl out there and u have to be u didnt make things even better for urself by showing up at the bar.
I was dating a divorced man with 3 children, he's 10 years older than I. But why wouldn't he want me included in ALL of his life, makes no sense. He started working a lot of overtime and started staying less nights with me. By this time it's been 6 hours, he can't still be there, right? Both unfortunate and fortunately, I pulled up at the same time I saw him and another woman walking out together. I couldn't be around the kids/family because he didn't really see us as a serious couple. The children were allowed to run wild at my house and that was perfectly acceptable to their father. I"m a mother too (was a single mom) and know that letting your kids rule the roost is no way to run a household.
I'm here to tell you, I wasted 8 months of my life on this man. He had never felt so in love in his life, like we were meant to be. However, I was unhappy with the fact that I couldn't have anything to do with his children and when I brought the subject up, I never really got a reason on why. Suddenly I had this overwhelming, heart-wrenching feeling to go to that bar. I'd love to help women bust the sorry SOB's that think they can have their cake and eat it too like they're God's gift to women. NEVER EVER get involved with a man who has a "previously enjoyed" family. I bought a house so he could be "closer to his kids" and the second we did the ex wife got even more restrictive with the children.
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When they would all spend nights with me, he never wanted to pay for food. He did pay alot of support so he was very stingy with his money. All you will ever be to them is a "place to stay" or someone for them to cry a river to when the ex tightens the grip on their balls they will forever have because he got her pregnant!!